Women – Own Your Sexuality, Sex Is Not Just for Men To Enjoy!

It has been long accepted for men to have many sexual partners and for them to enjoy sex. However, when a woman does the same she is vilified and called many derogatory terms. Yes, people, the sexual gender bias is still alive and kicking. I heard a program on the radio today calling a woman who enjoys sex, or puts out (that high school term is still used) as a “ready-freddy”. I thought we as a society have come a long way. We are no longer little girls who should grow up to be proper young ladies who keeps themselves together so that they will be attractive to the right and proper young man.

I grew up hearing that a man wants a young lady who is a virgin, but she should accept if he has been around the block a time or two thousand. He is a man and that’s what men do, but a lady on the other hand should never know what the block looks like. Oh goodness gracious no. Heaven forbid. Girls are nice, full of sugar and spice while boys are, well, the opposite. And a woman, no, a lady, should understand and she should overlook a man’s past.

In olden days, if a lady decided she was tired of being someone’s trophy and she now becomes a woman and enjoy her sexuality, she is looked at as a Ho (a gardening tool), a slut or a tramp. A man can be a man, but a woman should be virginal until her wedding day. Women, enjoy your sexuality, enjoy your beauty, enjoy your spirituality, enjoy being a red-blooded human being. You are not being a man if you own and enjoy your sexuality. Sex is not just for men and if it were, women would not exist, and men would not exist either, since it takes a man and a woman to procreate.

Women, as a grown woman, you do not have to adhere to any old and outdated beliefs about how a woman should be when it comes to her sexuality. Do not promote the double-standard when it comes to sex. Sex was not created for men alone to enjoy nor does it mean that you are a prostitute just because you enjoy sex. Moreover, even if you were a prostitute, it is your body, your life, just protect yourself. Women as you grow, as you mature, what you enjoy will change. There was a time when it maybe just about sex and nothing more. After awhile, it now becomes about something deeper. That is why if you meet a man who is just about sex and you are too, then happy, happy, joy, joy. However, if you are looking for something deeper, then you know that a just sex encounter is not what you are looking for at this time.

Your morals are your morals and if your morals make you happy and feel content with who you are and how you live your life, then that is your life. Children having sex is never appropriate, however, when you become an adult and you now have your own life, you are free to live your life in the way that works for you. Your life is not to be argued with anyone. Not everyone can do what you do and that is fine. You won’t be able to do what others do, because that may not be for you.

Women, enjoying your sexuality does not mean that you are a dirty ho. That would make men dirty hoes also. How I hate that word – ho. But anyhoo, do not accept anyone’s projection of their thoughts and beliefs unto you. Do not let those things get into your head. No one has the right to class you as dirty because you enjoy sex and or that you are a freak, kinky or even if you have fetishes. Your private business. Enjoy your sexuality privately with your partner(s). Of course, you know that anything that is criminal is off-limits. If you feel that you are dirty, then work that out in your heart, head and soul. Sex is not dirty, otherwise, no Christian person would have sex because the Bible would denounce sex. Get rid of those sexual hang-ups and be sexually free. I’m not telling you to become a freak overnight, just start to own your sexuality. Do not apologize for who you are and embrace your inner freak.;)

Women, it is important that we own our own life. That is what makes us emotionally mature individuals. You can invite a man out if you desire, you do not need to wait on a man to invite you out. You can initiate sex if you desire. That is not only for men. Acknowledge your Being-ness. Get rid of the notion that you are being forward. We no longer live in those times. A mature, grown woman should be able to invite a mature, grown man out to dinner. If he says no, then she knows it has nothing to do with her. That man is not for her or he may just not be free.

Be your own woman and know what you want. You want a man who wants a woman who knows what she wants. You also want to be around women who also have a strong personality, women who know what they want in life and who are not afraid to go after the life they desire. Now, do not get strong personality mixed up with being pushy and abrasive. That is not a strong personality. Strong personality comes from deep within you. It is what comes out when you as a woman knows who she is, knows what she is about and where she is going in life. That is a woman who is in tune with her sexuality and her Being-ness, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.